House Party - Royal Caribbean Staycation


I was chosen to host another house party from House Party.com. I really enjoyed the last one that I hosted, so I'm looking forward to this one. The theme for this one is Royal Caribbean. Here's what they say about the party:

On August 8th, party guests across the country will relax and unwind, the Royal Caribbean way!

Your guests will have the time of their lives as they explore and enjoy cruise activities and adventures at your Royal Caribbean Get Away From the Every Day House Party™. They’ll get a new Cruisitude and the details on a cruise offer .To help ensure your party is a success, you’ll be getting a party pack with supplies and goodies from Royal Caribbean and Cruise Planners/American Express.

Here's the link to my party, if you want to come. You don't have to RSVP through the site, just let me know! http://www.houseparty.com/party/145960

subconscious



Yesterday was one of those days that seemed like three different days in one. Much of this probably had to do with the fact that I welcomed the day from the absolute very beginning. I saw 4:30AM and my tired eyes slumbered for an hour and a half before I jumped up, freaked out because I missed the 6AM workout. I curled tightly next to my beloved for another 15 minutes before I forced myself awake to face my workday.


I came in to the office and was caught in a much unsuccessful attempt at giving a surprise to a friend. Oh well, I think the thought behind it all was conveyed and I was still grateful that I was considered to aid in making someone's day a little brighter. :D


Work went really well until just after noon. I called my grandma because I wanted to check on her to see how her procedure went. She's been having some knee/leg pains that they think are either a pinched nerve or a blood clot. (talk about two COMPLETELY different things). Anyway, as we were talking, she was really chipper and happy that I remembered to call to wish them a blessed day. Then, reminded me that 9 years ago, we were ALL together as a family to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. W-O-W! First off, 50 years is a significant milestone. So is 59. And it hit me that so much has changed in my life in those 9 years. I'm married, have a child, a mortgage, a dog, a bonafide 401K, a routine, a schedule, and a much different focus than before. Nine years ago, I hadn't met the third bestie, I didn't have a niece, and 9-11 hadn't happened. I was glad that my subconscious screamed out to me to make that phone call. And I was especially grateful to God for allowing me to have another phone conversation with that wonderfully amazing woman I call my grandmother. In the background, I could hear grandpa, much like I hear Mari in the background when talking to Don. I promised myself that I'd finish printing those photos for her and have them in the mail for her birthday next week. Especially because she confessed to me that she missed seeing her and how grandpa wanted to see pictures too. (The above picture is grandpa during our last visit to El Paso.) SIDENOTE: And a question for you all, is it worth it to spend an extra $9.99 a month to add a line to our phone plan so that my grandmother can use it to get picture mail and video mail from us? They don't currently have Internet, so have no way of getting the regular visual updates.


Then, about 1:30 and the COMPLETE sleepies hit. My head was hurting and during a meeting, I put my head down in my hands when someone asked me what I was doing. My head was pounding and I didn't know how to explain what was going on with me, so I smiled it off and a laugh about the Snuggie that I'd gifted to another co-worker.

10 to 4 and I threw on my workout clothes and had one of my best workouts yet. We did a combination of dead lifts, standing shoulder/military press, and rows. I was excited because I was able to row 500m in 2 minutes after I'd already done 3 other rounds. That's pretty good stuff. Means I'm definitely in much better shape than I was just a few weeks ago.

Afterwards, I rushed back to the office to clean up to make it to our team building night. It was fun playing shuffleboard and learning how that works. I was nearing the end of my rope and it took most of my energy to make it home.

When I did arrive, I was greeted by a very happy and smiley little one. Don seemed wiped out himself, so I insisted he get out of the house to have some much needed "me" time. I put on Mari's sign language DVD and zoned out watching her practice signing. Well, they started signing "eat" and naturally she needed food. Even though she'd already had dinner, she was a little starving monster. I gave her a full banana, a graham cracker, and we topped it off with some water. She started to fuss, make more signs for eat, which I promptly told her that we were finished eating and that it was time for sleep. She kinda looked at me, and then made the sign for sleep. After we did the night routine, I tucked her in and kissed her goodnight. It was 8:42.

I went back to the couch to wait for Don, when five minutes passed and I knew I wasn't going to last. I picked up my tired body, walked to the room, sending Don a quick text along the way. By 9PM, I was passed out, slumbering soundly until the next morning.

It was a wonderful day.
This post won't contain any spoilers, but I must caution you, DO NOT READ if you don't want any preconceived opinions prior to going to see the movie. I know of some people who are doing their very, very best to not read ANY reviews until they see it themselves, so there you go, there was my warning. (You can read up until the asterisks where it says Movie Review.)

Going into this movie, I was excited. Beyond excited, actually. I felt like Animal, pausing every few minutes to let out gleeful gutteral noises that seemed to only further exaggerate my joy. Time was proving to be an enemy for me, but I didn't care. By golly, I was going to squeeze as much as I possibly could into the day (which isn't unlike me), but at the sacrifice of adequate sleep. After I made the conscious decision to sacrifice many precious hours of sleep, and my beloved to join in on the ride, we scored two tickets to the 1AM showing. Fortunately for us, the neighbor kid agreed to come over to hang at our place in the wee hours of the morning so we could continue my tradition of seeing the movie on opening night (thanks Sam!).
Sidenote: Initially, I didn't want to read the series. I held off until book 3. For my birthday one year, my sister bought me the first book and made me promise her that I'd read it. Because I couldn't back down on a promise (much like an unbreakable vow), I reluctantly read it. I wasn't completely impressed, but moved on and devoured the subesequential books. When the first movie opened, I met up with her to see it on opening night. She, dressed in full witch regalia, and I wearing striped socks because, quite frankly, I always wear striped socks. I enjoyed the movie and it was there and then that I simply HAD to do this for every movie.
Anyway, we didn't have tickets to the show up until 8 hours before. This was definitely a last minute decision and I was COMPLETELY deflated when I discovered the theater by us was sold out. On a whim, I checked out Fandango and discovered that the ol' theater I used to frequent was showing it on EVERY screen! Plus, they had tickets!! (I later discovered that each showing was sold out!! holy cow!) I called up Primo and we made a plan to meet up with them at 11.

After work, I bailed on yoga mostly because I forgot my clothes. I was starting to get cranky because I didn't sleep well the night before. No matter, though. I was going to see HP! We headed to Chipotle to pick up a quick bite, then headed to the track for Sias Track Night. Yes, I know that I ran 4 miles earlier in the day (Don having done 6, plus a spin class...overachiever!), but Sias Track Night is our sacred thing and we were committed to it. Anyway, was yesterday hot? Maybe you can't sense the sarcasm, but it was so hot, that my shoes were already warm before I started the run.

Anyway, we powered through and rocked 1.5 miles. I mostly walked it, enjoying the company of one of my very dear friends who is expecting, our conversation surrounding fond memories of pregnancy and infancy. I did get some sprints in, while someone familiar to Mr. Blue Shorts was doing his own workout. He looked really fit, but I couldn't help but look over at my own man and be grateful for his build. That guy was too skinny, had no body fat, and while his protruding muscles showed off his excellent shape, I was unimpressed because he was running on the innermost lap of a mostly vacant track. All I could think was "slacker." My honey, was not only on the 4th lane, but also pushing our 20+ lb daughter, this after a day of physical exercise. God I love him! His work ethic, his drive, and passion to stay fit! *swoon* Ok, back to the story.

We get home and quickly shower. I prep Mari for bed and she goes to sleep without any fuss (3rd night in a row, score!). I force myself to stay awake for 15 more minutes while the washer finishes the cycle. I prep my clothes to dry, congratulating myself that my blacks were mostly workout clothes instead of dress clothes. :D Then, I nestle into bed and pass out for two hours until it is time to leave.

We bid the neighbor kid hello and joke on our way to the theater, reminiscing about our ride down that same road February 7, 2008. We pull in and are overwhelmed by the cars in the parking lot. EVERY-SINGLE-SPOT was taken. We had to drive on over to the parking garage to get a spot and had to pull on the 2nd level, no less. crazy! After trekking on over to the theater, the inside is a mad house. They have changed the way the concessions work, emulating a cafeteria feel, which was confusing, but also seemed comfortably familiar. I grabbed some nachos and a water, apparently unaware that Don had asked me for a soda and a hot dog. (How did I miss that? Oh yeah, I was still waking up from my nap.) We made it to our seats and to pass the time, we were cracking jokes at all sorts of little things and I played Brain Age on Prima's DS. My age was 80. Yeah, lack of sleep does that to your motor skills, folks. It's just as bad as being inebriated and I don't recommend unless there's an emergency, like opening night of a Harry Potter movie.


************movie review*****************
Visually, the movie was great. Hogwarts was a character all its own, similar to how the settings are a character in Ang Lee movies. Beautifully done, every single detail incredible! The wardrobes for the cast...wow! The tailoring on Snapes outfit was impeccable. I want to be that person's apprentice. I especially loved how his cape flows, then again, I have a not so secret crush on Professor Snape in the movies. Random, I know. Anyway, while the visuals were great, I think they focused too much on them at times, and in interrupted the overall flow of the movie. Also, some of the story line seemed a bit forced. This movie is (loosely)-based on a bestselling novel, the story line should NOT be forced. Yes, I have to be honest, I was slightly more than disappointed. To hear people say this was the best movie of the bunch, well, I'd have to disagree. It was enjoyable and worth watching, but it isn't one of those films that I'd pay money to go watch again in the theater. The actors, as always, did a wonderful job. It's so nice and refreshing to see them grow-up before our eyes and you really do feel connected to them. So much so, that even the antagonists continue to make your skin crawl with their high pitched shrieks and yells, think Helena Bonham Carter. However, there was just something lacking. I can't put my finger on it. But like Primo said, I was just waiting for it to take off. The one scene that sticks out to me more than the others are when Harry is in the cave with Dumbledore. That scene is EXACTLY what I hoped the rest of the movie would have been. That scene nailed it. For that alone, I would HIGHLY recommend you go out and make some time to watch it. I was on the edge of my seat, holding onto Don's arm, heart pounding, knowing, but still in utter suspense. THAT'S what I wanted for most of the film.

On a different review, Don, who hasn't read ANY of the books (and I've forced him to watch the others) said he really enjoyed it and wasn't disappointed. The three of us in our group who had read the books were disappointed, so I guess if you've read them and were expecting/hoping for some specific details that particularly stood out to you in the book, well, you could potentially be disappointed. But, on the other hand, if you go in there to just be entertained, then I think you will be pleased. Looking forward to the final two films that, I think, may come out next year. The tradition will, hopefully, continue.

*for those of you wondering, I've had a total of 3.5 hours of sleep, but I'm feeling pretty good. I'm just upset that I missed the morning workout because I failed to set my alarm properly. Here's to hoping I figure out a way to make it up.

Have a good one!

Avocado Face


It's been a long while since I talked about avocados, but she has recently rediscovered her love of avocados and guacamole. She and Don came up to my office to visit me and it took everything in me to not want to eat the delicious green yumminess, and Mari made sure I didn't have more than a taste.

Anyway, after a rough day, this was a small happy moment. What are some of your favorite indulgences? (other than chocolate, of course!)

Brother & Missy

I'd been wanting to take pictures of Brother and Missy for a long while, but the moment just wasn't right. This time, we nearly missed our opportunity because of time frame...I thought I waited too long. And while I should've been prepared with my tripod, I was shooting free and open, hanging on the edge of a methaphoric photo cliff.

Anyway, these two are so photogenic and aren't the gorgeous! The camera loves Melissa for sure! Oh, and Brother too.

This one was one of my favorites from the set.
And then Mari jumped right on in my shot and plunked herself down , front and center.

Thanks guys for letting me practice! And more importantly, thanks for coming in town to share time. I forgot how much I missed having you live with us, Brother! *sniff*

Henry's!

On Saturday, it was H-O-T outside! It was definitely a scorcher and we needed a treat to cool us off. I'd never set foot into the legendary Henry's and this was the perfect occasion to try it for the first time. I walked in there with no expectations, just that I'd be happily pleased with whatever I ended up with.

On our way to church, we pass Henry's. And now that one of the BFFs is moving closer, I pass Henry's more frequently during the 2.5 miles to her house. Anyway, here's the happy sign!
I love this old school bucket of smile-makers!
This framed Rorschach says: "A Henry's cow eating a scoop of vanilla ice cream in a snow-storm." Is it ok for cows to eat ice cream?
I ordered a waffle cone with Senator Shapiro's Praline. Mari and Don helped me finish it because my eyes were a thousand kinds bigger than my tummy. You can tell that she's lovin' it!
Brother seemed pretty happy with his pink vanilla Coke float.
Afterwards, we left full, happy, and I must agree with them, "Ice Cream Makes You Pretty."

The Sore Back Scare

On Friday when I came home, Guapo was lethargic, sad, and overall NOT his regular self. I was worried and afraid of the outcome. He's 8 years old and so far has not had any back problems. I knew this day was coming and yet, I found myself not prepared to handle it. My emotional bank was in dangerous jeopardy of being overdrafted. Yet, there I sat, praying, hoping, and afraid of what our lives would be like without our beloved Guapo. A woman sitting in the waiting room had broken down. I later learned that they had to put her little one down despite their best efforts. I offered up a prayer to comfort her and soothe her. Now, I really wish I would've gotten up to give her a hug, because I think she needed it.

Anyway, after nearly three hours, we got in to see the vet and he said that the liquid between the vertebrae had become inflamed. He recommended that he stay confined to his crate for a minimum of two weeks and take an anti-inflammatory twice a day. After that, he's to see his regular vet for x-rays and a follow-up visit. When we return from vacation, he will be making a visit and I'll keep you posted.
While we were waiting, the light from the sunset fell through the glass so perfectly that I had to snap a photo of Mari-Jul. Isn't she precious in this?

WARNING: CHOKING HAZARD


Yesterday, I had a scare that I hadn't had since 16 months and 3 weeks. Why? I get so caught up in the every day that I move through life a little faster than I should and I take things for granted. On my commute home, I was talking with Don (not unlike my typical after work routine) and in the background I could hear our little one busying herself with godknowswhat. Then, I heard her coughing. Followed by intense coughing. Our conversation paused and the phone sounded buzzed and muffled. I could hear Don patting her back encouraging her to "get it out." I have NO idea what it was, but then I heard it:
cough, gasp, cough, cough, gasp, half scream, Cough, Gasp, COUGH,
GASP, GASP, ACK, ACK
And I yell, "GetitoutWhatisit?GETITOUT!" Don snaps back, "I'm trying. Call 911!" CLICK.
OMG....
My body is trembling, completely and totally trembling. I dial 9-1-1 on my phone, finally aware how small the buttons on my phone really are. I'm doing my best to maintain composure. I have to stay focused, speak clearly, so help can get there faster. I'm connected immediately with a calm yet assertive voice on the other end. She has to transfer me to Plano because I'm calling from University Park. Those of you not familiar with Dallas, that's about 20 -30 minutes away from my home. I could barely hear the Plano operator, but I give her my address and Don's phone number so they can contact him. She tells me they are going to try to call him. I was uncertain if he would pick up. I HAD ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHAT WAS GOING ON OVER THERE AND WHY IN THE WORLD AREN'T THE CARS IN FRONT OF ME MOVING FASTER????? I get off the phone and Don calls me. His voice quiet, "hello." Then, in an eerily calm almost a somethings-really-wrong voice, "I have to go." CLICK.
I lose it. I'm parked on 75, still a few miles from 635, the halfway point. I look up and see Lindsey's building. I push 4 and I'm immediately grateful for speed dial. Please God, take care of my family. Lindsey picks up and I ask her to talk to me about anything. I blurt everything all out in one long, blubbery sentence. And she calms me down. Immediately, I feel calm. I'm ok. She's gonna be ok. We're all gonna be ok. Something she said made me think of my neighbor, whose number I'd just gotten the day before. I tell her I'm going to call her to see if she can maybe give me a play-by-play update since she lives across the street from us.
When I dialed, there was no ring, just some dialing on the other end and I hear her voice, trembling. Immediately, I'm consumed with worry again.
"What's going on?"
"Bianca, you there? Is everything ok? What's going on? I'm sending a prayer RIGHT NOW!"
"Right, that's what I want to know, what's happening, can you tell me?"
"What? Where are you? What?"
"I'm stuck on 75 in traffic. Is the ambulance there? Did they take Mari? Do you see them?"
"You're not at home?"
Somberly, "No."
(My thought is, no, I'm a horrible mother because I'm not there. And the working mommy guilt hit smacked me in the face like a punch from Mike Tyson. I was leveled. I sunk further in my chair, tears streaming down my face, squeezing the steering wheel, exposing the whites of my knuckles, seriuosly contemplating on putting my car in park and running the now 10 - 12 miles to my house.)
"Ok. They've gone. The fire truck is gone. I didn't see them take Mari. I think she's ok. Are you ok? What can I do?"
And I'm grateful for neighbors. I can't speak.
Whimpering, "Can you go over there? Can you see if she's ok? Will you call me back?"
Because, really, I can't be the mommy right now, so will you please go across the street and embrace my child and convey the love and fear I have right now. Hold her tight like you hold your own precious daughter?
And she does. Don calls me and he tells me that they are ok. Mari is ok. Guapo is ok. Don is ok. Everyone is ok. Mari had swallowed a quarter and before the emergency crew showed up, she'd vomited it out.
(I thought, was it that quarter that I placed on my counter top that I found on the floor and picked up and put there because I was afraid she'd try to put it in her mouth? That was the only one, but even with her stool, she can't reach it, can she?)
The firemen had gotten there first, then the ambulance arrived. They checked her to be sure she was ok. Putting on the oxygen reader (that normally goes on a finger) on her toe since she is so small. Yes, she's little and tiny and fragile. All was fine and healthy. We were told to monitor her to see if she scratched her throat. I'm relieved and he tells me he'll see me when I get home.
Then the neighbor calls me and gives me an update. I'm so grateful for her and happy that we have relationships with them. She also let me know that she was outside with the other neighbor and they were both standing there, concerned, and praying for us. (We really are blessed!)
SIDENOTE: yes, I've been in traffic this ENTIRE time. R-I-D-I-C-U-L-O-U-S! I didn't see any wrecks and normally it doesn't take me that long to get home.
Anyway, I pull in and run inside. I see her perched on her daddy's lap. I go to hold her and she lets me hold her for a long, long time. We stand there in silence, fat tears streaming down my face, and I'm just holding her little body close, feeling her heartbeat, smelling her hair, and feeling her soft skin against my own. Each of us breathing heavily, rhythmically, until I pull her back to shower her with kisses. Don comes up to give us an embrace. Guapo runs to our feet and snuggles in by my ankles, keeping watch over us, wanting to be near.
It's ok. Everything is ok.
(that picture is from earlier in the day where she is playing with her fake food, feeding carrots to her baby that she's still yet to name, while her other baby's name is "Bop")

DYAO and Other Reviews



Okay, I'm normally not a fan of reality TV. I never got into Survivor or American Idol. Yes, I do remember being an avid fan of The Real World, but after the first season, I lost interest. I'm not saying reality TV is bad, I just don't watch it. It is too much of a time suck and time is very, very precious these days.

Last night, after working out and eating, we were flipping through the channels. We half considered going back to Noggin, but felt that Mari had her fill of TV (she currently watches The Backyardigans). Anyway, I stumbled across DYAO on Oxygen. Quirky title, but it does get the point across. I convinced Don to let us watch one episode. We were expecting a trainwreck on epic proportions, and that isn't what we were after. The first bit was annoying with their screaming and food indulgences, but once they got down to business and started dancing, I immediately found myself hooked! The premise: Heavier people wanting to make a change, and using dancing to help them shed those pounds. If the Biggest Loser and Dancing with the Stars had a baby, you'd get DYAO. Yes, these people are heavier, but man, can some of them move! Don and both remarked how well they moved and it was a crying shame that we didn't dance more. Mari even got into the spirit of the music and started dancing away. Watching them prompted Don to do some sit-ups and push ups. I got on the ground to stretch and found myself not only groovin', but doing some push ups and sit-ups too! Immediately after that first episode, they showed another one and we paused to watch it too. I guess we have found our summer show to watch.

Sidenote: Don converted Mari's crib to a toddler bed. I didn't think he'd get
around to it until the weekend, but sure enough, there it was when I got home
and I did get a little choked up at the sight. I was curious to see how bedtime
would be and well, it was a little tricky. She signed to go to sleep, even
walking to her room and crawling into bed. But once we closed the door, open the
floodgates and screaming and hollering. She fussed for a bit and finally fell
asleep. It wasn't as bad as we thought! Although, I think we need to come up
with a different bedtime routine to make her not have the anxiety of going to
sleep. What do you guys do? Oh, and still no paci! We cut off the paci from her
homemade wubanub, and she's been carrying around her little Grover and Octopus
as comfort aides, but hasn't had the pacifier. Here's to hoping our will power
holds up and she doesn't ask for it! :)
REVIEWS...




Over the weekend, we rented Notorious. I've always been a fan of Notorious B.I.G. and was very interested in his story. Granted, this is a movie and not true life, but there was probably quite a bit of truth to it. Interesting to me how much of a friendship he and Tupac had and furthermore, I liked how they portrayed their riff, and unfortunately how it played out for them both. It was worth the rental as far as entertainment value. The actors did a great job, especially the gal who played Little Kim. Boy, did she put it out there! Antonique Smith, the actress who played Faith Evans was GORGEOUS! I don't think they did a great job casting Tupac's character. Anyway, if it happens to be on BET, then it's worth spending some time watching it.




The Tudors - television series loosely based on historical fact. We've watched the first disc of season one and it is growing on us. Not as awesome as Rome or Deadwood, but we're going to give it a shot to see how the rest of the season will play out. I really enjoy the costumes and Jonathan Rhys Meyers does such a wonderful job of being a jerk! lovesit. I'll let you know how it goes.

Sun Tea


2 gallon sized Luzianne tea bags
1 perfectly pear white tea
1 sliced nectarine or peach
Gallon of water
Cane Sugar for taste
Set outside in the sun for a few hours. I like to leave mine out there for a minimum of three hours. Today, didn't have very much sun. I was grateful for that because the temperature setting wasn't on "hell" for the first time in a few weeks. (had to borrow that one from a fellow runner)

Anyway, I brought it in, added some ice and about a cup of organic cane sugar. Mmmm...yum-o-rific!

Cheers!

Sun Tea Story
When I was little, there are certain smells and sounds of the different seasons. Of course, Christmas smells and general Autumn smells are obvious, but during the summer, Mom ALWAYS had sweet tea. Every so often, she'd make some sun tea. That was always the best tea, and one of the few times I'd actually eat fruit. Come to think of it, summers were really the only time out of the year that I'd willingly eat fruit, other than a banana or orange. I remember playing outside for hours on end, and finishing up with a nice refreshing glass of chilled sun tea. Delish! Here I am sharing my recipe of a little slice of summer, and hopes that you'll get to enjoy a refreshing respite from the heat. *clink*
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